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  • Self-Care During Breast Cancer Treatment

    Self-Care During Breast Cancer Treatment

    Self-Care During Breast Cancer Treatment

    Second To Nature Encourages You to Take Extra Care of Yourself

    This month, Second to Nature shares examples of self-care during breast cancer treatment. In September, we reviewed how loved ones can show their support to breast cancer patients. Whether it’s advocating, doing chores, providing childcare, showing sympathy, or attending events, cancer patients appreciate receiving others’ support and care.

    Having that support system is certainly important for patients … but so is patients committing to self-care. Some people hear “self-care” and think, “Am I being selfish to do that?” No way! Self-care isn’t selfish. It’s simply making sure you have what you need to function. Some simple, yet necessary, examples of self-care include a healthy diet, regular exercise, good sleep, and trying to lower stress.

    Eating a Healthy Diet

    Whether you have any existing medical conditions or not, a healthy diet is a crucial example of self-care for everyone. For patients undergoing breast cancer treatments, this is doubly important. Cancer treatments often drastically impact the immune system, which the digestive tract primarily controls. The human immune system works to find and attack germs.

    Chemo, Calories, and a Healthier Balance

    Chemotherapy and radiation can negatively impact the immune system blood cells for a short period of time. A weakened immune system means patients can easily get sick. A diet of whole grains, fruit, and vegetables, plus foods with probiotics, boosts immunity by keeping the intestinal tract healthy.

    Furthermore, chemotherapy and radiation are known to affect a patient’s appetite and taste buds. Patients whose appetites decrease or whose taste buds change due to treatments should eat smaller meals as often as they can. It’s also best that such patients don’t lessen their appetite by drinking lots of liquids before or during meals. Generally, nutritionists recommend eating five to six small meals or snacks daily, rather than three large meals for self-care.

    Foods To Eat

    Fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and low-fat foods and drinks are easier on the digestive system. This is as true for breast cancer patients as it is for every person. Breast cancer patients should avoid acidity, though, to minimize nausea. Eat strawberries, blueberries, and cantaloupe rather than oranges, pineapples, and grapefruits. Milkshakes, smoothies, or juices are OK if a patient is unable to fully digest solid foods. Soups are also a great option!

    Pay attention to sugar content

    Not everything “diet” is truly “diet,” and artificial sweeteners have their drawbacks. True, there’s no scientific proof that a sugar-free diet lowers the cancer risk, nor do artificial sweeteners actually cause cancer. That being said, artificial sweeteners can be hundreds of times sweeter than actual sugar. Artificial sweeteners trick your brain into thinking that you’re actually consuming sugar, which can trigger your sugar cravings. If a healthy diet includes the choice to lower sugar intake, consider lessening artificial sweetener consumption, too.

    Try to Exercise Regularly

    A healthy diet is only one part of consistent self-care. If a patient’s going to eat healthier, he or she may as well exercise regularly, too, right? Again, not only is this recommended self-care for every person, it’s especially important self-care for breast cancer patients.

    Benefits of Staying Active

    Doing something active can increase your appetite, which helps if the breast cancer treatment depletes hunger. Furthermore, according to www.cancer.gov, a 2020 National Cancer Institute study linked exercise to longer survival of high-risk breast cancer. The study also found that exercise lowers the risk of breast cancer relapses by helping to maintain a healthy weight. It also eases treatment side effects and boosts energy.

    Exercise Can Be Simple

    Start out easy by doing some stretches. Stretching helps maintain physical mobility. By doing some calf, hamstring, arm, neck, and back stretches, patients can at least stay flexible. Walking is another easy exercise; whether around the block, on a treadmill, or even while grocery shopping. The American College of Sports Medicine recommends cancer survivors walk 150 minutes per week. A walk every day adds up to only 21.5 minutes each time. With regained strength and energy, patients can advance their self-care choices to exercises like low-impact aerobics and lifting weights.

    Find the Right Balance of Good Sleep

    Self-care also means getting a healthy amount of good sleep. Medical professionals all agree that sleep impacts nearly every system of the body, among them immune, digestive, and cognitive. Since good sleep is so important in maintaining one’s overall health, it can particularly affect cancer in various ways.

    The National Cancer Institute defines cancer as “a disease in which some of the body’s cells grow uncontrollably and spread to other parts of the body.” Sleep impacts how all cells in the body function. How much or little sleep a person gets can affect the cells’ environment or the signals that affect the cells’ growth.

    Lack of Good Sleep

    According to www.sleepfoundation.org, “in animal studies, sleep deprivation was linked to increased wear-and-tear on cells.” This potentially leads to the kinds of DNA damage that could lead to cancer developing. Lack of sleep also impacts the immune system; therefore, it contributes to issues like chronic inflammation. Inflammation is also believed to increase cancer risk.  The Centers for Disease Control says that not getting enough sleep can lead to serious problems for people with cancer. They can experience lower quality of life, depression, and an incapability to participate in day-to-day operations.

    Too Much Sleep is Not Good Sleep

    On the other side, too much sleep can also be troublesome. Researchers define “too much sleep” as long sleep duration, more than nine hours per night. According to www.sleepfoundation.org, long sleep duration potentially links to cancer risk. The website notes that one study indicated sleeping more than nine hours a night contributed to a higher risk of death from breast cancer in diagnosed women. Current guidelines from the National Sleep Foundation state that teenagers need eight to 10 hours of sleep per night, adults need seven to nine hours, and seniors seven to eight hours.

    How to Have Consistently Good Sleep

    According to the CDC, among the best ways to improve a person’s quality of sleep include:

      • Soaking up morning sunlight. Sunlight increases melatonin levels, which is an important hormone for sleep.
      • Exercising. Daily physical activity can help people fall asleep more easily.
      • Going to bed and getting up at the same time every day, including on days off from work.
      • Making sure the sleeping area is quiet, dark, relaxing, and at a comfortable temperature.
      • Keeping electronic devices turned off at bedtime, such as TVs, computers, and smart phones. Better yet, consider removing them from the bedroom!
      • Not consuming large meals, caffeine, and alcohol before going to sleep.

    Strive to Lower Your Overall Stress

    Getting good sleep, eating a healthy diet, and doing exercise can also help to lower stress. The National Cancer Institute defines stress as “the body’s response to physical, mental, or emotional pressure. Stress causes chemical changes in the body that can raise blood pressure, heart rate, and blood sugar levels. It may also lead to feelings of frustration, anxiety, anger, or depression … Long-term … or high levels of stress may lead to mental and physical health problems.” Managing stress is an everyday part of self-care, but trying to lower stress while undergoing cancer treatments is essential. You can:

      • Do Enjoyable Activities

    One of the easiest ways to lower stress is doing an enjoyable and pleasurable activity. Whether playing a game, binge-watching a favorite show, or taking a bath, pleasure lowers stress. Partaking in pleasurable experiences hinders the     brain’s anxiety responses and levels off cortisol. Cortisol is a natural stress hormone in every brain. While its release is necessary in a dangerous situation, too much of its release is physically and psychologically harmful. Pleasure often releases endorphins into the brain, which lowers excessive cortisol levels.

      • Get Help with Financial Issues

    Cancer therapies and surgeries are expensive. They can also result in household income changes; patients often can’t work while undergoing or recovering from treatments. It’s okay to get help with paying for these things or even for day-to-   day expenses. Many times, churches collect offerings, and community organizations do fundraisers. There’s also help available from the American Cancer Fund, the Cancer Financial Assistance Coalition, and CancerCare.

      • Ask For, and Accept, Support

    No one can do it all, especially while battling cancer. Patients and their families shouldn’t be afraid to or concerned about asking others to support them on their journey. Maybe, a neighbor is a good cook; ask him to make the family’s favorite meal. Perhaps, an extended family member keeps a clean house. If asked, she can help tidy up the patient’s home one day. When or if loved ones show support by offering these services, patients should graciously accept their help. We also recommend joining and participating in a support group of people who understand the cancer journey themselves.

    Give Second To Nature a call at (540) 366-2711 for information about our services. We specialize in custom breast prosthesis and mastectomy education. Follow us on Facebook for updates. We’d also be happy to talk more with you about other examples of self-care during breast cancer treatment.

  • Parenting Through Breast Cancer

    Parenting Through Breast Cancer

    Parenting Through Breast Cancer

    Helpful Words From Second to Nature

    If parenting wasn’t already complicated enough, parenting through breast cancer often proves to be even more complex. Not only do you care for your children, but you need to keep a closer eye on yourself, as well.

    Second to Nature in Roanoke, VA, understands the daily challenges of parenting through breast cancer. How do you explain your diagnosis? What emotions should you expect from your children? What about manage tasks each day? This month, we address some tough stuff that may come up as a parent after receiving a breast cancer diagnosis.

    Open Up for Discussion When Parenting Through Breast Cancer

    As difficult as it may be, it is important to be open with your children about your breast cancer diagnosis. Discuss current events, what comes next, and how things may change. Provide facts as opposed to speculations. Explain it to them in a way that feels best for you, but don’t make it a forbidden subject.

    Even though it may be uncomfortable at times, talking about it will be helpful for them and yourself. Allowing open discussions will foster acceptance and understanding of breast cancer. Your children will feel comfortable enough to ask questions and you will be able to find answers together.

    Some parents find different ways of discussing their breast cancer journey other than sitting and talking. Painting or drawing are often used as a method for children to express emotions that they struggle putting into words. Writing in a family journal will allow everyone to put their thoughts onto paper to share with one another.

    Many parents find that books covering the topic of breast cancer are also helpful for kids of various ages. The Yale Cancer Center provides an excellent book list for ages four through adulthood to promote understanding of breast cancer.

    Kids Are Emotional And Resilient

    It’s common for children to have mixed emotions when a parent receives a breast cancer diagnosis. Feelings of sadness, fear, and anger are completely normal. Some children may even experience feelings of guilt. They may question what they may have said or done to cause the diagnosis to happen. Explain to them that your diagnosis isn’t anyone’s fault; it’s just something that happens. Demonstrate positivity and reassure them that you will get through this together. 

    Many children struggle with the fact that a parent acquired breast cancer. Although it is an emotional time, kids are resilient beings. When they show moments of bravery in the face of adversity, praise them. Let them know what a great job they are doing while helping you on your journey.

    Surround them with people who love and support them. Counseling is also an option if it seems beneficial to helping you guide them along and work through their emotions. No matter how you choose to support their emotions, as long as you believe in them, they will be okay.

    Designate Uninterrupted Quality Time

    Life often becomes hectic when a parent becomes diagnosed with breast cancer. Schedules tend to get thrown off track and new arrangements begin. Juggling what seems like everything in the world gets to be exhausting for everyone involved. Sometimes amongst the constant running, quality time gets pushed to the wayside. However, navigating through a breast cancer diagnosis is when quality time as a family is actually needed the most.

    Make sure to designate uninterrupted quality time with your family. Notify other family and friends and kindly request that they respect your family’s space during those times. Take advantage of those moments to do things that you love together as a family. Whether it’s reading, spending time outdoors, or watching movies, quality time will help everyone experience well-deserved happiness and tranquility.

    Parenting Tip: Remember, You Need Care, Too

    Yes, you are their parent. Yes, they deserve all of the love and care that you can give. Without discounting any of those facts, here is another one: you need care, too. Just like caring for your children is an integral part of parenting, self-care is an integral part of breast cancer. A parent of an active family can easily get caught up in the daily comings and goings.

    Although it’s great to continue doing things you normally would, you need to recognize when it’s time to slow down. Children are very observant and notice a lot more than many parents realize. Demonstrating positive practices can help children worry less. Practicing self-care also conveys the message that nurturing is a key component to healing when someone isn’t feeling their best.

    Take time for yourself to rest and don’t push yourself past your limits. If some days feel too hectic, find ways to make it less stressful, physically and mentally. Enlist family and friends to help with running errands, like getting the kids from school or taking them to practice. Request that multiple people in the family help with preparing dinner instead of doing it all yourself. Any way that you can make life a little easier on yourself is worth trying. Don’t forget that you, and your health, are as equally important as everyone and everything else.

    If you need a little help focusing on yourself, Second to Nature in Roanoke, VA, can help. Specializing in health, beauty, and image restoration, Second to Nature assists those parenting with breast cancer to feel their best.

    Continue to Live, Laugh, and Love

    A breast cancer diagnosis really throws a wrench in the workings of life. However, that does not mean that you should stop living. Keep in mind that there are things you can’t always control. Enjoy the moments that make you laugh and feel alive.

    Always remember that love is one of the greatest gifts in life. Be sure that yourself and your children have an abundance of it and share it regularly, especially during difficult times. The road may get rough, but remember to stay positive and take life as it comes; one day at time.

    Second to Nature is located in the Woodhaven Office Park, at 5450 Peters Creek Road. Call for an appointment at (540) 366-2711 or use our contact form. Follow us on Facebook for specials, breast cancer prevention news, and updates from Second to Nature. Contact us for education and support of those parenting through breast cancer.